First, let’s define the table.
I consider the table to be any gathering place where people meet to discuss things. I chose not to put the word “important” before people or things because individuals will decide for themselves who and what is important to them.
You might find the table here:
- In a conference room
- The cafeteria
- A golf course
- At a friend’s house
- Your parent’s house
You get the point. Discussions about finances, solving the world’s problems and special projects occur in many places, with many types of people who have many different types of responsibilities.
Do you have a seat at the table? And if you do, are you making a positive impact on those seated with you? Do you speak up or out when you have something to say? Can you sit patiently and wait for the right moment to interject? Do you listen, digest, prepare what you want to say and then listen a little more?
This is not the time to show off, however tempting that may be. I try to remember the table is temporary, it’s not personal. It’s simply a platform for discussion. If not officially invited, it may be time to invite yourself. “I see a seat is open. May I sit there?” That could be an actual statement or a metaphor. Look for the “open seats” and invite yourself if not already there. And when you’re at the table, participate fully.
This is a good start. What do you think?